Episodes

Saturday Apr 06, 2024
Strategies for Enhancing your Coaching Impact
Saturday Apr 06, 2024
Saturday Apr 06, 2024
Welcome to the Essentially You podcast, where host Mark Mathia explores the science of happiness and well-being. This podcast serves as a resource for coaches and coaching leaders looking to unlock their maximum personal and professional potential. Mark guides his listeners in creating a culture of positivity and well-being within their organizations.
In this episode, Mark addresses a crucial question for all coaches: how to measure success? He emphasizes that the success of a coaching session depends not on the coach, but on the client's progress. There are certain elements that coaches can measure: making strong connections with clients, building a foundation of trust that leads to rapport, and forming high-powered partnerships. Success can also be gauged by creating momentum and a sense of energy in each session.
According to Mark, coaching is both an art and a science. It requires humility, ego check, and an understanding that the client holds the answer to their success. Mark dissuades from using surveys for feedback, viewing them as rookie moves leading to a loss in coaching authority. Continual referrals, momentum, and strong connections indicate progress for a coach.
Mark ends this episode with a quote by B.B. King encapsulating the spirit of a coaching relationship: "The beautiful thing about learning is that no one can take it from you." This episode serves as a roadmap for coaches aiming to create a significant difference in their clients' lives.

Saturday Mar 30, 2024
Demystifying Imposter Syndrome in the Coaching Industry
Saturday Mar 30, 2024
Saturday Mar 30, 2024
Welcome to the latest episode of the Essentially You podcast where we delve deep into the realm of happiness, well-being, and coaching. In this episode, our host, Mark Mathia, takes us on an enlightening journey as he addresses what is colloquially referred to as the 'Imposter Syndrome' faced by many professional coaches. This is not to be mistaken as a clinical disorder, instead, it's a psychological phenomenon caused by an overwhelming fear and self-doubt about their performance.
This profound conversation isn't only limited to what imposter syndrome is, as Mark further expounds upon the causes and prevalence of it in high-pressure careers like professional coaching, and how it can, under certain circumstances, lead to anxiety and depression. If your symptoms start to interfere with your daily routine and work, it is strongly recommended to seek guidance from a mental health professional.
However, there is light at the end of the tunnel. Imposter syndrome can be combated and this podcast provides a roadmap to victory. With focus, reflection and some techniques coming from his years of experience and research, Mark introduces three critical practices every coach should adopt to overcome the debilitating fear and self-doubt associated with imposter syndrome. Mark believes that every setback and failure can shape us to be stronger and better coaches, our vulnerabilities can be our strength.
Ultimately, being in the company of high-quality people aids in combating the imposter syndrome. This external perspective can significantly enhance our self-awareness and confidence. Surrounding yourself with people who inspire and elevate you can result in improved performance in coaching.
Imposter syndrome should not be a roadblock in your coaching journey. Whereas, it should be the motivational springboard that propels you to believe in your clients and your abilities. Remember, when coaching, the sky is the limit, everything is possible. Now, get out there and start making a difference!

Sunday Mar 24, 2024
How Much is Coaching Worth?
Sunday Mar 24, 2024
Sunday Mar 24, 2024
Welcome to the Essentially You podcast, where we delve into the intricate science of happiness and well-being. In this episode, our host Mark Mathia takes listeners on an enlightening journey to comprehend the worth and impact of coaching.
Whether you're an individual interested in hiring a coach, an aspiring coach, or someone seeking to make an impact in others' lives, this episode furnishes the essential understanding of the value proposition that coaching brings. Remember, charging as a coach isn't linked merely to affordability, but rather, it's directly tied to the outcomes and transformations you enable in the lives of those you coach.
Discover how as coaches, we help individuals navigate the journey from being a coaching rookie to a coaching champion. We explore how coaching aids individuals in reshaping their values, resetting their mindsets, nurturing wisdom, taking accountability, and fostering well-being in order to not only survive but thrive in their various fields.
Learn how coaching instills seemingly amplified results based on the size and scope of an individual's dreams, ultimately transforming lives positively at work and home alike.
So tune in, glean priceless insights on truly understanding the value of coaching, and be inspired to shape a world weighed positively in wisdom, possibility, and hope. Let's get out there and coach away!

Saturday Mar 16, 2024
Enhancing Performance and Well-being with Positive Psychology
Saturday Mar 16, 2024
Saturday Mar 16, 2024
Welcome to the Essentially You podcast, where we unravel the science of happiness and well-being, offering insights for coaches and coaching leaders aiming to bring out the best in themselves and their clients. Join Mark Mathia in this enlightening journey of discovery and transformation towards an enhanced personal and professional life.
In this episode, Mark delves into the core principles guiding the profession of coaching. The focus is on the client-centered approach, confidentiality and trust, goal orientation, active listening and powerful questioning, non-directive guidance, accountability and feedback, and continuous learning and development. Likewise, Mark discusses the importance of empathy, strong communication skills, emotional intelligence, and a genuine desire to help others in the success of coaching.
Moving forward, Mark underlines the crucial role of positive psychology in coaching. The discussion extends to the history of positive psychology and its founding assumptions, including founding figures, emphasis on strength, the scientific approach, positive interventions, and the focus on flourishing. Positive psychology, as Mark puts it, is fundamental in understanding motivational factors driving human behavior, fostering deeper relationships, developing resilience, and achieving fulfilling lives —significantly pointing to the relevance of this human science in effective coaching.
Join us in transforming lives one client at a time. Mark invites you to be part of this enriching journey towards thriving life. Subscribe and leave a review if you find these insights valuable.

Saturday Mar 09, 2024
A Strength-Based Coaching Approach
Saturday Mar 09, 2024
Saturday Mar 09, 2024
Welcome to the Essentially You podcast, a platform dedicated to exploring the science of happiness and well-being. Join your host, Mark Mathia, as he provides valuable tools and insights to coaches and leaders aiming to foster positivity and well-being within their organizations. Tune into this engaging and thoughtful episode as we delve into the challenges of employee disengagement, its effects on organizations and how to combat it using a strength-based coaching approach.
This podcast episode serves as a rallying cry to engage organizations in combating the growing issue of disengagement and creating a supportive and productive environment for their employees. Tune in as Mark urges us all to rise to the occasion, reminding us that winning at work through employee engagement is an essential element of success in today's competitive market.

Saturday Mar 02, 2024
How To Elevate Your Coaching Practice Without Leaving Your Day Job
Saturday Mar 02, 2024
Saturday Mar 02, 2024
Welcome to another episode of Essentially You, the podcast dedicated to helping coaches and coaching leaders bring the excellence out of themselves and the teams they lead. In this episode, your host Mark Mathiak, challenges the misconceptions surrounding the professionalization of coaching and shares valuable insights about what it means to be a pro coach.
Becoming a pro coach doesn’t require one to abandon their day job. Climbing to the next level of your coaching career involves clearing up the common myths around the subject, regardless of what your current career is. In this discussion, Mark explores how coaching can be a robust and fulfilling process that helps individuals and teams achieve remarkable results and drive business success.
According to Mark, the path to becoming a pro coach is not necessarily about certification and business acumen, but about loving and understanding people. It's about guiding others to reach their full potential, not giving business advice. To excel in this role, a pro coach needs to develop a deeper comprehension of human motivation and the brain’s working process.

Saturday Feb 24, 2024
Exploring the Power of Coaching for Organizational Growth and Individual Success
Saturday Feb 24, 2024
Saturday Feb 24, 2024
Welcome to Essentially You podcast, the podcast where we delve into the science of happiness and well-being. In this episode, your host, Mark Mathia explores the transformative power of coaching for both personal and organizational growth.
Mark unearths how coaching is more than just providing answers or giving instructions. It is a collaborative process of asking powerful questions that allow individuals to discover and develop their own solutions. Mark highlights the importance of coaching being a mutual practice and partnership requiring continual learning, empathy, and trust construction for successful outcomes.
In this journey of discovery, Mark introduces key insights from influential coaching figures. Mark commences with John Maxwell, the acclaimed leadership expert, who believes that coaching effectiveness hinges on the individuals' growth willingness. Maxwell advocates for investment in leadership to ripple the growth effects down the success ladder.
Mark then converses on Daniel Harkavy, CEO of Building Champions, stating that coaching needs to be strategic, accountable, and occur in a mentor style. Mark further emphasizes the importance of having a mentor mindset to facilitate lasting relationships, growth, and development.
Valuable insights are also gleaned from Henry Cloud, a clinical psychologist and respected author. Cloud emphasizes the importance of timing and the need for a goal-oriented process in coaching. His theory supports the idea that coaching becomes more effective when it aligns with an individual's readiness for change.
Mark concludes the episode by discussing ways of effectively incorporating coaching in organizations aspiring for growth. Identifying obstacles, clear goal setting, determining the type of coaching, and involvement of all stakeholders are key to establishing a successful coaching culture within an organization.
Join Mark Mathia in this inspirational episode of Essentially You and glean crucial coaching insights that can lead to personal and organizational growth and success.

Saturday Feb 17, 2024
The Power of Forward-Thinking
Saturday Feb 17, 2024
Saturday Feb 17, 2024
Welcome to the Essentially You podcast, where the crux of the conversation is about adopting a proactive coaching approach. Mark Mathia, seasoned coach and host, discusses the power and benefits of proactive coaching and its value in creating a culture of positivity and well-being. Delve into this episode to explore the transformative aspects of forward-thinking leadership in professional or personal settings.
Mark opens the discussion articulating the importance of helping others proactively to circumvent challenges before they occur by anticipating situations and providing forward-thinking solutions. He contrasts reactive coaching, which is more emotionally charged and crisis driven, with proactive coaching that aims at preventing problems and enhancing resilience and preparedness in the workplace.
For those interested in enhancing their coaching approach or keen to adopt proactive leadership practices, this episode provides a wealth of guidance and practical insights. As Mark poignantly puts it, turning coaching into a proactive practice can make a profound difference in helping others live the life they aspire and to create a positive and robust culture in their organizations.

Saturday Feb 10, 2024
Essential Preparation Tips for a Successful Coaching Relationship
Saturday Feb 10, 2024
Saturday Feb 10, 2024
Welcome to the Essentially You podcast.
This episode delves deep into how preparation for coaching sessions is a key to successful coaching relationships. Various tools and techniques are outlined, such as making three points of contact before the first session, providing a coaching agreement, asking clients to complete questionnaires, setting boundaries, and creating a safe space for open communication.
This episode emphasizes the inherent value of coaching as an effective tool for personal and professional growth. It underscores how important it is to make clients feel comfortable and well-prepared for their first session. By following these rudimentary yet essential steps, you can build solid, successful coaching relationships that support your clients or the talent you serve in achieving their goals to the best of their abilities.

Saturday Feb 03, 2024
The Centered Executive
Saturday Feb 03, 2024
Saturday Feb 03, 2024
Join the 'Essentially You' podcast with Mark Mathia as he delves into the world of executive coaching, sharing key practices to boost leadership effectiveness. Learn to navigate the complexities of business environments, make informed decisions under pressure, and bring out the best in your organization with the right coaching strategies.
Whether you're in the throes of a real crisis or just battling the everyday challenges of business, the practices explored in this episode can greatly enhance your crisis-response, decision-making processes, and overall leadership effectiveness. Above all, feel inspired to lead with courage, empathy, and resilience amid any challenge, and pave the way toward thriving outcomes.